Dating

Who initiates, who pays, how affection is shown in public — dating norms vary more than almost any other category, and getting them wrong can read as either too forward or coldly indifferent. These entries cover the unspoken rules of courtship from country to country.

16 rules.

Dating

Dating rules

Expect the man to pay, but offer to split

Don't expect a kiss on the first date

Be direct and split the bill

Split the bill unless someone offers to pay

Be warm and family-oriented

Involve the family early in the relationship

Let the man make the first move

Confess feelings with a kokuhaku, not a slow fade

Go slow on public affection in Korea

Be warm and punctual, but not overly formal

Court with gestures and patience

Involve (or at least acknowledge) the family

Manage public affection to match the setting

Keep dating private and modest in public

Don't touch someone's head or point with your feet

Go for a drink, not a formal dinner