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Philippines

Filipino etiquette builds respect directly into the language: adding "po" or "opo" when speaking to someone older or in authority is a small habit that signals real deference — dropping it can read as overly familiar even when nothing else about the exchange is impolite.

26 rules.

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Country

Rules in Philippines

Accept the refreshments at a business meeting

Business

Address people by their title and surname

Business

Avoid direct, blunt confrontation

Business

Build the relationship before the business

Business

Court with gestures and patience

Dating

Involve (or at least acknowledge) the family

Dating

Manage public affection to match the setting

Dating

Eat with your hands at a kamayan feast

Dining

Let the eldest or the host eat first

Dining

Say "salamat" and linger after the meal

Dining

Use the spoon in your right hand, fork in your left

Dining

Avoid white or black-and-white gift wrapping

Gifts

Skip lilies and chrysanthemums, wrap it well

Gifts

Give money or a gift at a wake (lamay)

Gifts

Bring food or something practical to a housewarming

Gifts

Give gifts with both hands, open later

Gifts

Accept what's offered — don't keep refusing

Home

Greet elders with respect when you arrive and leave

Home

Remove your shoes, and don't wander past where you're invited

Home

Dress modestly and respectfully in public

Social

Give the "mano po" to elders

Social

Use "po" and "opo" to show respect

Social

Smile often — it's the default register

Social

Dress modestly and remove hats at church

Travel

Greet locals warmly and avoid confrontations

Travel

Pass jeepney fare hand-to-hand, and say "para po" to stop

Travel