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Dining

Meals are where etiquette gets tested in public, at the fastest pace. Whether it's where your rice bowl sits in Korea, when to decline food in Guam, or which side of the plate the bread lands on in France, dining customs everywhere encode the same thing: whether you're paying attention to the people you're sharing a table with.

23 rules.

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Dining rules

Keep the fork in your left hand, knife in your right — even for pizza

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Don't flip the whole fish over

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Put bread directly on the tablecloth

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Keep your hands on the table

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In Germany, Hold Eye Contact When You Toast (Prost)

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Restaurant tipping percentage varies sharply by country

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Let your host offer food more than once

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Eat and pass food with your right hand only

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Don't order a cappuccino after 11am

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Don't ask for parmesan on seafood pasta

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Never stand chopsticks upright in rice

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Don't tip

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Slurping noodles is polite, not rude

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Place rice to the left of soup

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Keep your hands visible, and don't rush off after eating

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Eat with your hands at a kamayan feast

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Let the eldest or the host eat first

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Say "salamat" and linger after the meal

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Use the spoon in your right hand, fork in your left

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Shake your cup to signal you're done with the coffee

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Eat with the spoon, use the fork to push

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Buy your round at the pub

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Never leave chopsticks standing upright in your rice

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