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Hold eye contact during a toast

When clinking glasses for a toast ("Prost"), make eye contact with each person you clink with, looking away is considered impolite, and superstition holds it brings bad luck (sometimes said to mean seven years of bad luck, or bad luck in a relationship).

GermanyDiningcasualUpdated September 2, 2026

When the table toasts, clink glasses individually with each person around you (not just one collective clink) and look them in the eye as you do it, saying “Prost” or “Zum Wohl.”

Take a sip after the toast before setting your glass back down, don’t just clink and set it aside untouched.

  • The seven-years-bad-luck version is usually specifically about your love life — friends will tease you if you break eye contact mid-toast, more than they would over any other kind of bad luck.
  • It’s not just a German thing — you’ll get the same expectation in Austria and see softer versions of it elsewhere in Central Europe.

Why it matters

The custom is often traced to medieval Europe, when clinking glasses and holding eye contact was a subtle way to show you hadn't poisoned the other person's drink at a banquet. Today it survives as habit and superstition rather than any real fear of poisoning: breaking eye contact is jokingly said to bring seven years of bad luck, most specifically bad luck in your love life. The custom isn't unique to Germany, similar versions show up in Austria and parts of France and Spain, but Germans hold to it consistently.

Source: Eye Contact Following a Toast in Germany – USC Digital Folklore Archives

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