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Greet friends with la bise, not a hug

Among people who already know each other socially, greet with a light cheek-to-cheek kiss (la bise) rather than a hug or handshake, number of kisses (most commonly 2) varies by region.

FranceSocialcasualUpdated September 2, 2026

Lean in and lightly touch cheeks (usually starting on your right, their left), making a soft kissing sound rather than an actual kiss on the skin. Two is most common nationally, but some regions do one, three, or four, let the other person set the count.

Reserve it for people you know or have just been introduced to socially. Business contacts, strangers, and first meetings get a handshake instead, see Shake hands in business settings.

  • Three is standard in the south, especially Provence, and four persists in parts of the east and north (Aube, Yonne, and areas above the Bordeaux–Nancy line).
  • Which cheek you start on varies too — most of France leads with the right cheek, while the southeast, east, and Corsica lead with the left.

Why it matters

La bise is reserved for people you've already been introduced to; strangers and first business meetings still get a handshake. Which cheek to start on and how many kisses is regional custom, so follow the other person's lead rather than initiating with confidence. The variation is significant enough that there's an entire crowdsourced map (Combien de Bises) dedicated to tracking kiss-count by département.

Source: La bise: who to kiss, how many times, which cheek – The Local France

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