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Let them lead the cheek kiss, and match the local count

Beyond a first handshake, greetings between women (or a man and a woman) often move to a cheek kiss — one kiss is standard in São Paulo, two in Rio de Janeiro and most of the rest of the country, so let the other person set the pace and follow their lead.

BrazilSocialcasualUpdated September 2, 2026

Start with a handshake and eye contact on a first meeting, especially in business. Once rapport builds, or in casual social settings, expect the greeting to shift toward a cheek kiss (between women, or a man and a woman) or a hug (abraço) — men greeting men usually stick to a handshake or a hug, not a kiss.

If a kiss is offered, move to your left first and offer your cheek, then switch to the right. Don’t count kisses in advance, just mirror however many the other person gives you.

  • This carries into the goodbye, too — Brazilians kiss on departure the same way they do on arrival, so don’t expect the greeting ritual to be a one-time thing per visit.
  • Expect it to fold into business meetings as trust builds — see the entry on business-card exchange and personal space for how this plays out once a handshake stops being enough.

Why it matters

Brazil is a physically warm culture, and greetings reflect that: a handshake alone can read as a little stiff once you've met someone more than once. The kiss itself is cheek to cheek with the lips never touching skin, more air-kiss than actual kiss, and the exact count is a regional habit rather than a fixed national rule — São Paulo trends toward one, Rio and most other regions toward two, and some smaller towns in Minas Gerais stretch to three among close groups. Getting the count "wrong" isn't a real offense, it just marks you as a visitor still learning the local rhythm.

Source: Brazilian Greetings Explained: Kisses, Handshakes, and Hugs – Street Smart Brazil

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