In Philippine business and formal social settings, address people by their proper title and surname: “Mr. Santos,” “Dr. Reyes,” “Atty. Cruz,” and so on. Don’t move to first names until the person signals it’s welcome — and with older or more senior colleagues, it may never come, which is fine and normal.
Professional titles like engineer and attorney are used proudly and should be honored. When unsure, err on the side of formal: over-formality is a minor awkwardness, while premature first-name use can read as a lack of respect.
- Titles convey earned respect, not mere formality — using them correctly is a signal of social competence.
- Follow the other person’s lead; if they introduce themselves by first name and invite it, matching that is fine.