For a dinner, party, or casual invitation to someone’s home, plan to arrive around 20 minutes after the time you were given, not before. Showing up early or exactly on time isn’t wrong, but it’s unusual enough that your host may still be mid-preparation.
Bring a small gift when you’re invited (see the gift-giving entry for what to avoid), and don’t treat this looser sense of time as license to be dramatically late — 20 minutes is the norm, not an hour.
- Keep the gift rules in mind on your way out the door — see the entry on avoiding purple and sharp-object gifts before you pick something up.