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Greet with namaste, and touch elders' feet

Greet with palms pressed together at chest height and a slight bow (namaste) rather than assuming a handshake, especially with elders or across genders in more conservative settings, some families also expect younger members to briefly touch an elder's feet as a sign of respect.

IndiaSocialcasualUpdated September 2, 2026

Offer a namaste (palms together, slight bow of the head) as your default greeting, particularly with older people or in situations where you’re unsure whether a handshake would be welcome. Let the other person initiate a handshake if they want one.

In some families, younger members bend to briefly touch an elder’s feet with both hands, then touch their own hands to their forehead, when greeting them at home or during festivals. The elder responds by placing a hand on their head and offering a blessing (ashirwad). This is a family/regional custom rather than something expected of guests or strangers.

Both gestures go by different names depending on region: namaste itself becomes namaskar, namaskaram, or nomoskar in different parts of the country, and the feet-touching greeting is called dhok deun or page lagun in Rajasthan and Uttar Pradesh, and pairin pona in Punjab.

Why it matters

Namaste works as a safe default greeting that doesn't require physical contact, which matters in settings where cross-gender handshakes may be avoided. Touching an elder's feet (charan sparsh, from charan "feet" and sparsh "touch") is a specifically Hindu family custom dating back to the Vedic period, not universal, it shows up mainly with grandparents or on visits during festivals. The gesture is reciprocal: the elder responds with a hand on the younger person's head and a spoken blessing.

Source: Why Do Indians Touch The Feet Of Their Elders? – The Culture Trip

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