When greeting an older Filipino, especially an elder or older relative, offer mano po: take the elder’s hand and lightly touch its back to your forehead, often with a slight bow. Say “mano po” as you do it. It signals deep respect and is warmly welcomed from visitors who make the effort.
It’s most expected with grandparents, parents, godparents, and elderly family — less so with younger adults or peers, where a handshake or warm greeting suffices. If you’re unsure whether to offer it, offering to an older person is generally safe and appreciated over skipping it.
- Mano uses your right hand, touching the back of the elder’s hand to your forehead.
- It’s common on arrival, on departure, and at gatherings — anywhere an elder is present, it’s a respectful touchpoint.